How do you know when you’ve found that person? Here are a few soulmate signs to look out for.
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1. He has a kind heart and spirit
I think it’s safe to say there are enough guys roaming around that are full of lies and toxic energy. Your forever person will be the guy that actually wants you to text him after a date to see if you got home safely and makes sure you eat before work. He cares. Keep him.
2. He always reminds you of your worth
He loves you for you and will always remind you of this. He doesn’t want you to change who you are to suit him and he makes you feel like a beautiful woman every time you are in his presence. Look for someone who simply adds to your self-esteem.
3. He actually wants to get somewhere in life
He isn’t satisfied with being complacent, but just like you, he has goals and dreams. It’s always good to look for someone who wants the most out of life.
4. He supports your dreams and ambitions
If you want to travel around the world and write, he will be right there by your side supporting you and will go to every book signing. Your forever person doesn’t feel emasculated by your success but supports it.
5. He makes you laugh
When life gets shitty, your forever person makes you laugh at yourself and reminds you not to sweat the small stuff. There is never a dull moment with him. RELATED: If He’s Really Your Forever Person, He’ll Have These 3 Qualities
6. He balances you out
While you are the wild child, he is the practical and down-to-earth one who brings you back to reality every now and then, so between you both, there is an equal balance of work and play.
7. You always feel comfortable around him
Whether it be a sexy dress or sweats and no makeup, he loves you either way and finds you attractive. He loves you, not what you look like.
8. He’s there for you during the worst seasons
He hasn’t up and left you because it’s been too difficult for him to handle. He’s in it for the long haul and wants to see you through every hardship.
9. He won’t judge you for your past
Because he knows no one is perfect, he isn’t a judgmental person and sees beyond your flaws, mistakes, and imperfections.
10. He makes you happy
You just know he is the one because you feel at peace. He fits the shoe and there is no question about it. You aren’t stressed, he makes you smile and you never have to worry about him looking for someone else because he is focused on you. No drama, just love. And honestly, that is a forever person. RELATED: 4 Signs You’ve Found Your Forever Person (Congrats!) Bria Barrows is a writer and contributor for Yourtango. This article was originally published at Thought Catalog. Reprinted with permission from the author.